How to Ask for a Pay Rise in 4 Simple Steps

According to recent research, better pay remains one of the top motivators for employees considering new job opportunities. After negotiating salaries and contract rates thousands of times, one simple truth always holds:

If you don’t ask, you don’t get.

Asking for a raise doesn’t guarantee success—however, staying silent almost guarantees you won’t receive one. Most of us work to support our lifestyle, our families and our goals, so learning how to negotiate pay confidently is an essential career skill. Below are four practical steps to help you ask for a raise the right way, plus smart strategies to handle rejection professionally.

1. Know Your Value

Understanding your market value gives you a strong, data-backed foundation for negotiation. Look beyond your job title—consider your specialist skills, industry knowledge and years of experience.

Use reputable salary tools such as Hudson, Robert Half or SEEK’s salary guides. Keep in mind these tools offer general estimates and may not reflect niche experience or technical expertise.

Recruiters can also provide insights—just be aware that they expect conversations to relate to genuine interest in the roles they’re hiring for, not solely market research.

2. Pick the Right Moment

Timing can make or break your request. The best time to ask for a raise is after delivering strong results—completing major projects, solving business problems, or taking on extra responsibilities.

Be aware of your company’s financial health and budget cycles. Avoid times of cost-cutting, restructures or poor performance. If your annual review is in October, start the conversation in August—most salary budgets are finalised before performance discussions.

Countless well-deserving employees miss out on raises simply because they asked too late.

3. Know Your Audience

Tailor your approach to suit your manager’s communication style. Do they prefer direct summaries or detailed breakdowns? Are they numbers-driven, or do they value cultural contribution and team leadership?

Plan your strategy in advance. A well-prepared conversation demonstrates professionalism and confidence.

What NOT to Say When Asking for a Raise

• “I really need the money.”
• “I deserve a raise more than someone else.”
• “I’ve been here for years.”
• “I’m underpaid compared to others.”
• “If I don’t get a raise, I’ll quit.”
• “My expenses have gone up.”

These statements shift the focus to your personal circumstances—not your value to the business.

4. Sell Your Value — Don’t Beg

Your goal is not to convince your boss that you need more money, but that you deserve it based on measurable contributions.

Bring a list of achievements, business outcomes and improvements you’ve driven. Highlight quantifiable wins such as revenue, savings, efficiencies, customer satisfaction or project delivery.

You can mention factors like replacement cost or competitor interest—but use subtlety. Managers often react poorly to direct threats. Hint; don’t hammer.

What to Do If Your Pay Rise Is Declined

A “no” doesn’t mean “never”. Your response in this moment can significantly influence your future opportunities.

1. Ask What It Would Take Next Time

Stay calm, positive and professional. Ask your manager:

• What performance level or results would justify a raise?
• When would be a better time to revisit the conversation?
• What additional duties or KPIs would strengthen your case?

This shows maturity, initiative and commitment to growth.

2. Be Open to Compromise

If a salary increase isn’t possible, consider alternatives such as:

• A performance-based bonus
• Extra development opportunities
• Training or certification investment
• Adjusted responsibilities

If you expect negotiation, start slightly higher than your true goal to give yourself room.

3. Ask for a Job Title Upgrade

If a financial increase isn’t on the table, a job title change may be an easier internal approval. A better title increases your internal recognition and boosts your external market value.

Once your title changes, companies often feel obligated to align your pay in the next cycle.

Final Thoughts

Approaching your raise conversation with confidence, preparation and professionalism makes a world of difference. Every situation is unique, so trust your instincts and adjust your strategy to suit the circumstances.

If pay negotiations feel intimidating, working with a career coach can help you build stronger negotiation skills, elevate your confidence and plan your long-term career path.

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